Read My Lips: Growth is Uncomfortable

Read My Lips: Growth is Uncomfortablle
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Top/ Bottom: Forever21 | Bangle: Hermes Clic H | Black Lipstick Shape Chain Clutch Bag: Choies

Read My Lips: Growth is Uncomfortable

YES! Growth is uncomfortable. If you want more out of your life, you need to change your routine and your attitude. All of us wants to be successful in life, who doesn’t want that? We want to give the best to our family and loved-ones. We’ve been through hardships, problems and we don’t want them to experience all of these that’s why most of us will do anything and everything like accept jobs even if the schedule is at night, some go out of the country to earn more money to provide things for the family and some take risks in putting up a business without consulting/thinking if it’s the right investment.

In life, we must work smart and not hard! We must work for our self to enjoy life because we are not born to just pay bills and die! Do you see growth in the field that you’re in today? If not, you are just wasting your precious time and effort. You don’t need to live a 9-5 life, that’s not for you!

We have goals and visions of what we want our life to look like in 5- 10 years from now.  Yes, there’s no doubt that the journey will be a roller coaster but we all know that there will always be a light at the end of the tunnel, no matter what tunnel you’re headed down and it will be all worth it. Our attitude should always be positive even if you encounter struggles and moments of giving-up. People will laugh at you, you’ll have nights of crying, empty pockets, situations that looks like it’s the end of the world and you can’t think of any solutions and a lot more. Try to look at these as your fuel. You’ll get strong and be able to accomplish anything if you experience all of these. God will use these to prepare you for an EXTRAORDINARY  LIFE! Do you believe in that?

“Every experience, no matter how bad it seems, holds within it a blessing of some kind. The goal is to find it.”- Buddha

As we grow and learn in every experiences, always find the good in every situation that you might encounter. It is essential to stay positive and just focus on your dreams. Always think of your BIGGEST WHY because this is the only way to get what you want in life. Do not be afraid to do things that others don’t do. Do not do things to please others, do them to worship God.

You must be willing to do the things today others don’t do in order to have the things tomorrow others won’t have. – Les Brown

What is your BIGGEST WHY? Let me know in the comments, I’d love to read your stories :) 


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  • Reply Ann Cagalingan April 16, 2016 at 12:36 pm

    You always looks so lovely Ms.Ayesha! oh,btw,we have same red top,i wear it last Feb,14th ♥

    • Reply Ayesha April 16, 2016 at 12:57 pm

      You’re so sweet Ann :* Thank you. Nice and perfect for Vday! Yay for twinning <3 Have a great weekend!

  • Reply Samantha Aguilar April 16, 2016 at 5:45 pm

    I love your words Maám and really helps inspires us, we especially women. We must Keep moving forward no matter what.

    • Reply Ayesha April 20, 2016 at 12:40 am

      Thank you. I appreciate it!

  • Reply Michelle Salazar April 16, 2016 at 6:08 pm

    good day ms. ayesha new follower nyo po ako 🙂

    • Reply Ayesha April 20, 2016 at 12:02 am

      Hello Michelle! Thank you for the love & support :* Nice to meet you 🙂 God bless!

  • Reply Kari Ann April 21, 2016 at 2:09 am

    Great tips, I find making goals helps me focus and get things done. It also keeps me happier. Oh and Interesting purse!

    • Reply Ayesha April 21, 2016 at 3:45 am

      Thank you Kari 🙂 That’s good to know. Yay! I have a thing for cute purses *winks 🙂 Have a great day!

  • Reply Shannon Peterson April 21, 2016 at 2:25 am

    I think this is why many people don’t try to grow or change – its hard!

    • Reply Ayesha April 21, 2016 at 3:45 am

      It’s hard but if you know your deepest WHY you can do it! Thanks for dropping by Shannon 🙂 Great day!

  • Reply Amy Jones April 21, 2016 at 7:48 am

    We must always love ourselves, thats what my grandma used to say, i believe in doing the things we REALLY want to do, because they makes us happy and full! We must be afraid because this life is the only one we got!

  • Reply berlin April 21, 2016 at 8:48 am

    I agree with you that we should work smart than hard. and of course, we should never forget to reward ourselves as well. A simple new red lipstick or a new top would surely brighten a lousy day.

  • Reply Elizabeth O. April 21, 2016 at 11:10 am

    First off, I love the look! That bag is adorable. And this is definitely a post that people who feel lost in their jobs should read. We should definitely stop asking why and just pursue what we’ve always wanted. Thank you for that reminder.

    • Reply Ayesha April 25, 2016 at 1:55 pm

      Thank you Elizabeth 🙂 That’s very true coz if we keep asking this and that, we’re just wasting our time. We have to focus on our goals and dreams and just look forward. Most welcome! Great day ahead.

  • Reply Michelle Gwynn Jones April 21, 2016 at 11:40 am

    Every new step in your life requires adjustment. Wouldn’t it be nice if you never had to change?

  • Reply Elizaveta Hesketh April 21, 2016 at 11:58 am

    I agree that it is great to be able to look ahead and plan out what you are going to do 5-10 years from now – then you can achieve it!

  • Reply Sage April 21, 2016 at 3:26 pm

    Six years ago, I packed up my live and moved overseas. It seemed daunting at the time, but the rewards have been beyond my wildest dreams! I always keep my eye on the prize 🙂

    • Reply Ayesha April 25, 2016 at 1:49 pm

      Passion is what makes us continue to do more. That’s great for you! More rewards to all of us. Great day and God bless!

  • Reply lexie lane April 21, 2016 at 10:10 pm

    Love the tips and ideas! Thanks for sharing. That would be helpful.

    • Reply Ayesha April 25, 2016 at 1:47 pm

      Thank you Lexie. Great day ahead!

      • Reply Christina May 3, 2016 at 1:12 pm

        Great ingihst. Relieved I’m on the same side as you.

        • Reply Ayesha May 4, 2016 at 1:37 am

          Thank you Christina. Have a great day!

  • Reply Laurie April 21, 2016 at 10:14 pm

    Every experience for the good or bad is a learning experience.

    • Reply Ayesha April 25, 2016 at 1:46 pm

      That’s very true! Thanks Laurie. Have a great day!

  • Reply Patrice April 22, 2016 at 2:43 am

    Look lovely its the red shirt the color pop nice outfit.I agree find the good in what you do will make you happier. Les Brown is my favorite motivator.

  • Reply Ana Fernandez April 22, 2016 at 6:30 am

    Inspiring words! Make me want to think what I can improve of myself?

    • Reply Ayesha April 25, 2016 at 1:38 pm

      Thank you Ana! Yeah, likewise. We should think of it and improve our self everyday. Have a great day!

  • Reply MsCrookedHalo April 23, 2016 at 2:06 am

    Two things. God won’t give me more than I can bare. And the devil is a liar. Those two things help me to keep on keeping on.

    • Reply Ayesha April 25, 2016 at 1:37 pm

      Word. I’m also sticking to those two things. And that we should not worry in our life. Have a great day MsCrookedHalo 🙂

  • Reply Colette S April 23, 2016 at 10:43 am

    I love your post.
    I was just talking with my kids about always been positive, even under discouraging times.
    Very inspiring. Thank you

    • Reply Ayesha April 25, 2016 at 1:34 pm

      Thank you Colette 🙂 Oh that’s awesome! Say hello to to your kids from me ^ ^
      Most welcome. Great day!

  • Reply Lisa Rios April 23, 2016 at 10:53 am

    I very much agree with you that you must work smart than working hard. That awesome quote from Buddha adds more inspiration to your article. I stay positive on my goals & that helps me achieve what I dream!

    • Reply Ayesha April 25, 2016 at 1:33 pm

      Thank you Lisa! Yeah, I so love that quote. It’s my daily motivation *winks 🙂 Have a great day!

  • Reply Ron Leyba April 23, 2016 at 12:18 pm

    This -> always find the good in every situation.

    That’s the kind of mantra I am living at right now. Makes my life easier and happier than before.

    • Reply Ayesha April 25, 2016 at 1:32 pm

      I’m happy for you Ron 🙂 Keep it up! God bless us all. Have a great day!

  • Reply Samantha Aguilar April 23, 2016 at 1:06 pm

    Reading Again… I love this line of yours Ma’am… “In life, we must work smart and not hard!”
    To all Mothers out there!

    • Reply Ayesha April 25, 2016 at 12:33 pm

      Hello Samantha! Thank you for your support and I’m glad you are enjoying reading my posts. I appreciate it! Stay smart 🙂

  • Reply Natasha Mairs April 23, 2016 at 6:35 pm

    I really love your red top and the bag is just so different, really like it

    • Reply Ayesha April 25, 2016 at 12:21 pm

      Hello Natasha! Thank you so much 🙂 Have a great day!

  • Reply Dianne April 23, 2016 at 7:15 pm

    I enjoyed reading this blog post. All of us needs that extra push to go and chase our dreams. But unlike the others, I’m still clueless on what I want with my life. I enjoy what I do and I enjoy my life today. But I know this isn’t the best for me 10 years from now. What I really want, is what I have to find out.

    • Reply Ayesha April 25, 2016 at 12:18 pm

      Thank you Dianne! Find your passion. In layman’s term, choose a job you love and you will never have to work a day in your life 🙂 And it’s so true! Living testimony here *winks

      Good luck sweetie! Update me hihi :*

  • Reply Mardene Carr April 23, 2016 at 9:00 pm

    Growth is mostly painful but it is a good kind of painful…kinda like labor pains. You know that at the end of that pain it will be worth it. Lovely outfit by the way!

    • Reply Ayesha April 25, 2016 at 12:15 pm

      Yes! Well said. Thank you Mardene! Have a great day!

  • Reply Melissa Bernardo April 24, 2016 at 3:23 am

    Great tips! I enjoyed reading your post!

    • Reply Ayesha April 25, 2016 at 12:13 pm

      Thank you and I’m glad to know that 🙂 Have a great day Melissa!

    • Reply Ayesha April 25, 2016 at 1:12 pm

      Thank you Melissa! Great day!

  • Reply Kathy Kenny Ngo April 24, 2016 at 3:42 pm

    My biggest why is why can’t I seem to find love? There. That’s my biggest why.

  • Reply Samantha Aguilar April 28, 2016 at 4:03 pm

    I’m waiting for more reviews po ma’am!! Hoping a reviews about journey of your life po Ma’am Ayesha!

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